The next step in the process is to
ensure that you are not coming off as a needy person. Everyone will feel
like they cannot live without their ex, but there is no point in making
this obvious. Instead, you should stay strong, and let your ex see that
you are doing just fine by yourself. If you let everyone around you see
your comfort and self confidence, then you will have a better chance of
getting back together with your ex.
Trying to get back at your
ex, or trying to make your ex jealous is not a good way to operate. In
fact, these are some of the worst things that you can possibly do,
because it will show your ex that he or she should simply move on
because you already have. While you do want your ex to see that you're
doing ok, you do not want it to inspire him or her to completely move on
if your ideal scenario is to get back together. Let your ex see how
strong and self confident you are, and they will feel inspired to get
back together with you.